On making things clear....
I recently asked a girl -- explicitly, not just implied! -- to go on an actual Date (yes, the capital "D" was there, even though it was spoken). She said, "Thank you, but I'm not interested in you that way." Ok, cool! No harm, no foul, and we're still friends. :) That was SOOOOOO much easier than the "let's hang out and hope we click and if we click I might get the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend but I shouldn't let her explicitly know I'm interested (although hopefully she'll figure it out) because I'm afraid that'll scare her off" approach. No, if being blunt scares her off, then fine. Y'all know me -- we probably wouldn't have gotten along anyway; none of us has time to dilly-dally around waiting for someone to figure out what they want. So....From here on out, if I'm interested in a you, I'm going to ask you: "I'd like to take you on a Date; are you interested?" Now, for...